Male vs Female: Part 1

Salam everyone. (Currently im still having my fever, flu and cough) Harap2 cepat lah sembuh kan. Since iv got sometin to share, all the sickness gone a bit for a while. Yeah, the topic. The never ending issues. Tp dekat sini i sentuh sikit demi sikit, ya lah, tgk topik tu again, kan ade part part. so this is my PART 1. 

Who's flirting more? Guys or girls? For me, generally my thoughts referring more to the guy. (Adakah saya fikir kerana saya seorang perempuan..naaa~) Then i asked my bf (bole agak x jawapan die ape?) Dia ckp, iye, mmg lelaki lebih ke arah tu, tp todays, he added more, BALANCE! laki perempuan sama je. (Hurrm~) Is it?

There are people yg dah in relationship, tp still 'teman tp mesra' with others. For me, i faham sgt la tu, even though their current relationship tu dah mmg stable, dah lame bertahun2, sayang gile2 sayang, parents pun dah jumpe, cume x nikah saje lg. STILL, sebagai manusia biasa, kkdg perkara 'flirting' ni mmg xleh halang. Ok try to look this into the bright side ok. Sll kite nk fikir negative je. Plz plz lets try little. Why people flirt? Dr jawapan i yg i dpt, i kumpul, i tanya, and me myself the answer is for fun. Tp ade stgh org fikir lain ade stgh org lg fikir lain. So i mewakili stgh org yg lain. (Which one? alah mane2 lah kan) Tp in the sense of making friends. Friends for benefits! heee..Yeah thats reality yaw!

Stable relationship dah ade, what for nk lepaskan kan. So having new friends, chat wit them, hang out bla bla bla hanyala cume utk menghilangkan rase boring, bosan and common thing yg sll kite buat dlm relationship rutin. STILL STILL, love to our stable partner nvr fade. Even xde yg berubah right. Well i told u, its for fun. Kdg2, dkt current friends tu pun, mungkin kite ade tipu ke, ckp x serius ke, ya lah, benda temporary, so what for nk discuss serious matter right. But y? sbb dorg pun i pasti mmg tipu juge, nvr serius and they having fun too. (Soryla, i pun byk tipu u... heeee )

Haiish, tp my entry bukan nk menggalakkan anda flirt, and play around wit ya partner. O'ooo. No no no..hahaha.. Cume kalau ttbe come across such experience at least u know what to do.

Since benda/perkara2 mcm ni mmg kejap, so do appreciate what u've got. Kdg2 terleka sgt, yalah i faham, new things, challenging, feel being loved etc etc etc, but remember, sume ni temporary je. Good great guy yg betol2 sayang, or care you, dia akan respect you lebih and treat u gently if die tahu yg you sudah in relationship. Their attitude much educated, and full of RESPECT. So dont easily fall to someone that's not. Flirting guys type (perasan player lah konon..hahah pity) bole di 'detect' sekejap je. Even one day!! hahaha kelakar la. ok i think thats all from now.

Be happy. To all my friends and all dearest people PLAY SAFE! yay!!

Adios amigo.

Yours Faithfully

akifays ilmar