"Kawan dulu rapat sekarang x rapat sgt tp still keep in touch kdg2."

For this post, "kawan" kategori yg i pilih adelah mereka yg dulu rapat skrg x rapat dah sbb life masing2 dah berlainan kan tp still consider kawan since dlm facebook list pun name dorg berada dlm kategori friends list. STIIL, this type of "kawan" sgt dikenali suatu ketika dahulu but now? not anymore. Cume level of friends relationship tu so so..Ade masa say hai, pastu ttbe menyepi. As i said before, time passed by, things change so do people n this so called friends. So what shall we called them?

"Kawan dulu rapat sekarang x rapat sgt tp still keep in touch kdg2." 

Yes, that is the most perfect sentence to name them. Either they are boys or girls, i ade kawan kategori ini.
Hurrm panjang sgt, so pendekkan ialah  "KDRSXRSTSKITK2"  hahhaha...panjangnyerrr..Nevermind.

Bagus bile sekali sekala they come approach dlm FB or via email or via phone say hai dan kdg i pon sll jugak say hi to them tibe2. Tak terfikir ape2 just niat utk tegur hi and done. Thats all.

Tp kkdg juge ade yg terpanjang pula conversation. Well thats good too, utk tegur n tye kabar..hows life, dinner already? sehat? cmne hidup skrg?....bla bla bla... BUT BUT BUT.. when it comes the most NO NO SITUATION part is , mereka berkongsi cerita ttg achievement diri mereka dgn bangganyer. Samada ttg kerja, life partner, opposite sex love, same sex love, err not that one n things that they gained or whatever they have that can make them feel proud to own it. Tapi tapi tapi lagi, they immediately outloud telling me.   yAY!! IM a very goood listener.
Dorg bercerita dgn tibe2 tanpa rase segan malah dgn berlagaknyer dan tanpa memikir samada si pendengar ni nak tahu ke cerita yg dorg ceritakan tu. O'ooo!.. ADE CARA N WAKTU YG SESUAI utk cerita hal2 mcm ni. I akan bangga n glad to hear from my friend, tp kalau baru je start conversation setelah sekian lama kite x chatting or facebooking or going out, hang out after a years.. my god or even last meeting during high school or my 1st year at uni..And the conversation just begin dgn hi how r u..atau baru je beberape sentence. TUP TUP, tibe2mereka ini mula cerita ttg  - " i dah ade soulmate..  i kahwin tahun ni jugak, i sgt pasti sbb keluarga dah restu.... i bahagia dgn this gurl..... i dah go around the world dgn dia...... my wedding dkt kl tower..my mom dah restu. i pergi dgn die..jgn jelos..i sayang sgt die. i percaya die..i selalu spend time dgn die...die faham i n percaya kat i.....so die xkesah i kwn dgn sape2.. i dah ade kereta..i nak pergi oversea, vacation..die xsuke i pakai mcm ini...bla bla bla...."  
Above are some of the conversation that i received from"KDRSXRSTSKITK2. mereka sgt  BERIA2 cerita dkt i ok secara tibe2. I dah perhatikan..almost everytime they act like that to me when we have chance to start conversation. Kenapa yer kawan?  Masalahnyer lain lah if i tanye dan tanye hal2 ttg dorg nak cerita ni or flow of the conversation boleh mengenai topik dorg. TAPI TIDAK.. bAHKAN I  tak TANYA. dan sedikit pon i xfikir nak tahu, apatah lagi nak tanyer. YELAH, hello...u guys quite stranger to me ok. What for i wanna noe ur love life story. before ni pun kalau chat pon xlengkap, say hi, n u people suddenly shut up, hilang ttbe...beter jgn ajak org chat..apela... N now, conversation through chat/fb/email/sms or dr mane2 xsampai 5min, xkan u people nk cerita sume hal tibe2 kan..PELIK LA..  PLsss guys..take it easy..calm down..Girls bercerita kite faham2lah kan..tapi ini pihak lelaki yg sakan bercerita.. What the.... Aigooo!..Pelik kan kalau lelaki beria2 cerita dekat perempuan (which is me) ttg plan extravagan soulmate mereka.. hurmm. SO i dgrkan sajelah.
The point is, these people, they voice out as way to make me feel jealous or something else. In fact, i feel extremely annoyed. Soory sgt but thats the fact. Pergghh! dah lama i pendam, ok at last tersembur jugak dlm blog. I really hope that there will be no more next time. I never hate them, dorg xsalah kan,for what nak benci kan..friends still friends.. i cube pk positive maybe itu cara mereka utk bercerita. As long as they didnt burden me wit thier story, it seems fine to me. Tp i try to avoid these people. Yelah kan dr jadi seorg yg x ikhlas nk mendgr, beter live.
Alright thats all for today entry.

To my deary "KDRSXRSTSKITK2, kite cerita relax2 aje ok next time. Maybe bile conversation kite dah lebih beratus2 perkataan, lebih 30min borak2 and kena pada masa n flow of conversation, then u can share on what u guys proud of ok. SAYA ready utk mendgr :)

XOXO,
akifays
Still i love all my friends n i never take friends for benefits. Friends are everything to me after family. :)